#tbt with my honey
#love #pinkhair #pinkandpurplehair #lilachair #fashionshow #couture #corset #makeupartistry #altcouple #ALISA #ALISAapp
Passport realness 👽👽👽👽
#feelinmyself circa ‘04 - ‘05. Where’d that kid go? #fruitsmagazine #harajuku #punk #ALISA #ALISAapp
Ladies night @tallulahthompz @_amielou 👑💄🌺🍹👠🍸💋👑💄🌺🍹👠🍸💋👑💄🌺🍹👠🍸💋
When I’m with a group of friends, I will try my best to give everyone the same attention. If I feel I’m talking to one of my friends for too long, I will try and politely end the conversation and will talk to another friend. I feel if I don’t do this, they will think that I don’t like them.
Thanks @darkbeautymag 💋💙🌟💋💙🌟#model #me #darkbeautymagazine #nun #fashion #couture #creepy #photography #photoshoot #makeupartistry #niaricouture @rpowazynskiphotography @josephinebirkettmua @aqueenwithnoname
In every thought you think, word you speak, and action you take, you’re optimizing for something–whether you realize it or not.
"I’m not ready" may be thought to avoid possible pain and rejection. "I love you" may be spoken to experience connection. That last rep at the gym be may be to feel stronger. The 18 hours of work may be to feel significant. And that trip abroad may be to heal some part of you. It’s different for each of us, and useful to be aware of.
Here’s an example: In everything I do, I’m optimizing for freedom, adventure and impact.
Freedom, as in, financial flexibility, inner healing and creative expression.
Adventure, as in, travel and experiences that push my comfort zone.
Impact, as in, prioritizing values and mission above all, with an emphasis on results.
This awareness is an immensely useful reminder when I’m feeling stuck or in a negative thinking spiral. It also influences what I say ‘Yes’ and ‘No’ to and how I structure my time.
So, I’m curious: what are you optimizing for?
p.s. As I was finishing writing this, the man working here came to tell me that Steven Tyler and Emma Louise wrote their last songs right where I’m sitting. Yay creative expression!
p.p.s. thanks to my FaceTime with @farhadini for inspiring this post. 💓
D110, Q10 | #gowithin #20questions20days #aquestionaday #the100daybook #the100dayproject (at Altereno Cafè)
Last night I was drunk flapper 😹